WHEN THE PHYSICAL TURNS VIOLENT
WHEN THE PAIN AND FUSTRATION BUILDS UP INSIDE OF US WHY IS IT THAT WE ALWAYS HAVE TO TURN TO VIOLENCE..I.E. PUTTING YOUR DAMN HANDS ON SOMEONE??
IS THIS A RESULT OF OUR UPBRINGING AND SEEING CONSTANT EXAMPLES OF PEOPLE THAT WE SEE AS OUR ROLE MODELS DO?
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN IT'S SOMEONE THAT YOU ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH?
DO YOU FORGIVE THEM? IS THAT THE END?
WHAT MAKES PEOPLE THINK THEY CAN SAY SORRY AND IT BE OK?
THAT THE "LOVE" THEY ONCE SHARED SHOULD OVERRIDE SUCH AN OCCURANCE?
IS LOVE WORTH THE RISK OF BEING ASSAULTED AGAIN, OR EVEN WORSE, LIVING IN THE FEAR THAT ONE DAY IT JUST MAY HAPPEN AGAIN?
WHAT IF YOU'VE BEEN DOWN THAT ROAD BEFORE WITH SOMEONE ELSE, SHOULD YOU LET IT GO PRESENTLY?
DO YOU BELIEVE THAT THE PERSON SAYS THEY WILL NEVER DO IT AGAIN, ACTUALLY WILL LIVE UP TO THIER WORD?
SHOULD ONE EVEN BE CONSIDERING, CONTEMPLATING ANYTHING LIKE THIS AND SAY FUCK IT?
posted by AsxySCORPIO @ 10:14:00 AM
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2 Comments:
dam, this is a counseling session! deep shit man...thanks for dropping it on us. i have to think about all of this...
As a child of an abusive father witnessing furniture overturned and our apartment demolished internally as a 4 year old (yes I remember it clearly), while my parents went at it, and my sister and I cried helplessly and my neighbors ignored the obvious source of the commotion of our apartment... I have strong feelings about this.
Violent episodes occur when someone reacts without thinking. To say that you will promise not to do it again says that you will ALWAYS think before you act, and clearly, you have illustrated that there is a point after which you dont think before you act.
So... what happens next time you are pushed past that point? How can you promise not to ever do it again?
Situations like that are NEVER healthy. And while I dont like to make never statements... given my background, I cant imagine ever allowing myself to remain in a physically abusive situation.
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