boys, boys, boys

its a crying shame how lame dudes can be. not that i am actually looking for any type of relationship wit anyone currently, but if a person does approach me, why in the hell cant the be single? my question is why is it that men who are involved in ideal relationships are always tryin to holla? i mean damn it makes me think, is that all i am worth is a quick nut? then i rethink that and i know my self worth which is very high might i add. then i qustion the relationship the dude is in, covering all the basic points and being very analytical with it. and more times than not, i cannot come up with a valid reason for them to stray. this is a dilema to me, b/c it's like everyone, including these dudes say they are looking for that special someone to hold them down, but when they get it they are ready to cast it off. i just feel like if you are looking to date around, then do that. stop lying to other people and especially yourself if that is what u want to do. there is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with that. but the issue with in that is people attach a negative stigma upon those who are just dating around, i'm not talkin about people who sleep around, like something is wrong with it. especially in the gay damn community where tom and dick, both done had harry and everyone knows ya business. so why can't dudes just be honest with themselves?